Apr
Erotic Phone Humiliation
A caller on Niteflirt called me recently and told me how he loves humiliation but so many wanna be dommes do not know how to go about it. They sit there ironing while on the phone just tossing out random verses of idol banter and expect this to cure the hunger that the true slaves and subbies are craving and needing. Now most guys that do not under stand the humiliation fetish will find this fun and exciting, but many other will falter and be completely turned off and it is those that I love and cherish deeply.
Humiliation should NOT be easy nor a haphazard mixture of words thrown about in order to belittle. I call the as forementioned Extreme Verbal Abuse, now do I do this on calls and in my mp3 recorded Niteflirt listings? Why yes yes I do! Wouldn’t be a true domme without doing so. Verbal Phone sex abuse can and is fun in the right context but guys looking for humiliation in general want to be put through their paces properly.
Trashy pet names like piglet and loser are ok but not if repeated over and over to where the slave/subbie is wondering if he’s on the set of Clueless or not. You have to change it up a bit and stick in what we learned in English class as ADJECTIVES people.
Then you must give a task, be it for the slave to fetch a crop or whip on all fours or for them to watch me masturbate while they are denied the right to touch themselves. Erotic Humiliation (in my opinion a much untapped and FUN market) goes deeper then just the mentality but also the physical nature of making a subbie do a demeaning task but in an erotic way. Such as attaching a cock collar and leading the phone sex fantasy slut around by leash that is firmly a fixed to the leash while the scamper on all fours. Making them cum in bowls then laughing as they are forced to lap it up from a dog bowl. Yes I am using lots of puppy play references, guess that is just the mood of the night.
It takes a real phone and real life domme such as I, to get into the victims head a bit and wiggle around till you discover the exact fantasy then take it to a comfortable next level. Otherwise why have a fantasy? They would become repeatative and boring otherwise, which is why most dommes can not retain the slaves and subbies they have had in the past. The notion that only dommes move on is completely absurd and anyone who truly believes this is delusional. A slave is to please a domme but it has to be mutual to some extent.
Back to the topic at hand, erotic phone humiliation is also a process. You can not start by having the dummy strip down, put on women’s clothes and strut around like a chicken then suck dick. You first gently tease and find those insecurities that they love to have exploited then exploit them. Humiliation has so many niches and genres that this is a MUST! Then you have to figure out limits and set them and test them here and there to see if any one will lift then onto the fantasy. You always want to leave them wanting more and more, which with me it isn’t hard as I will never allow you satisfaction till you have proven to be a loyal piglet. New techniques must be used with each scenerio to keep it fresh and fun. Then you must leave the loser knowing you are and were in charge and you are only interested in talking to them if money is involved. Look at true erotic phone humiliation as financial domination at its very mildest with tease and denial usually in the mix.
Remember guys do not settle for cheap wanna bes when you have creame brule in front of you.
BTW here is my lastest Humiliation Task set, its a mere 30 dollars for 10 mind blowing humiliating tasks!
